Lifestyle

Life’s Too Short For Burnt Toast

photo (4)I’ve recently moved in with some relatives of mine while I complete my final teaching practicum. Before moving to my new home I was quite nervous because I was facing the unknown. I had only met these relatives once before when I was very young, so I had no idea what my life would be like in this new home. I am pleased to say I feel more at home than I could have ever imagined. What I find most important about my time here is that I am surrounded by people who live with such a positive perspective. You can feel the positive energy as soon as you cross the threshold of this home. They are teaching me appreciation of the little things in life. This morning for example I burned my toast and was quite upset about ruining my breakfast. I could have let it ruin my entire day, but then my aunt walked into the kitchen and said frankly “life’s too short for burnt toast.” In that moment I realized something, that life really is too short. Life is too short for wearing uncomfortable shoes, for always being in a rush, and holding grudges. Life’s too short to complain about the weather and to have regrets. Life’s too short for worrying about the future and for not saying I love you. And life certainly is too short for burnt toast.

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Straight To My Heart

Straight To My Heart

“Some say I’m too sensitive but the truth is I just feel too much. Every action, and every energy goes straight to my heart”

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But That Doesn’t Mean I Can’t Try

But That Doesn't Mean I Can't Try

I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to travel a fair bit in my life for such a young age. The thing that I love about travelling is that you get to meet so many different places. I find it fascinating to experience the different personalities of cities around the world. Each place I’ve been to has left a certain mark on me, a memory. Travelling is exotic. And I think a longing for travelling is natural feeling for many people. So it’s quite easy to fall in love with a city far away. The more difficult task really is falling in love with your own city. Sometimes we feel stuck in a monotonous life and we no longer notice the nuances of the place we live. On these days I always dream of travelling to somewhere new and exciting, an escape from my ordinary life. But that is no way to live. We should not feel the need to travel to take a break from our lives. Every moment is a part of your life whether it’s in the heart of New York or on an acreage in the rural suburbs. One should not be more exciting, more real, than the other. So it is with this mindset that I look upon the city that I am living in now. Though it is a transitional stepping stone in the path of my life, I want to look upon this place with new eyes. I want to find the quirks of this city, because every place has its quirks. Is every day going to be an adventure? Hell no. But that doesn’t mean I can’t try.

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How to Pack for Backpacking in Europe, AND Still be Fashionable

Over Christmas Holidays, I got to fulfill one of my lifelong dreams: to go on a backpacking adventure in Europe. I have been fortunate enough to have gone to Europe with my family a couple years prior to this adventure, but this time was different. This time it was just my cousin and I taking on the European world. And all we had were the (small)bags on our backs. Now let me tell you, for someone who is terrible at packing light, fitting everything I wanted into a backpack was no easy feat! Oh and as an added twist, we traveled over winter break which means a lot of bulky items. Plus, I’m older now and my hand-me-down GAP pullover that was a staple when I was 12 was not going to cut it. This time, I wanted to look like I was at least trying to keep up with European fashion as well as staying warm AND packing light. Whew, it’s as if you have to have super human powers for such a task.

There is only a limited amount of space in that backpack, trust me, and you want to make the most out of every outfit. The key is to pack light and practical. Layering is going to be your best friend. Pack clothing that you can mix and match in order to spice up your wardrobe. Because otherwise you’re going to get tired of the same 7 outfits really quickly.

And another fact I can’t stress enough: if you don’t love it when you’re at home you’re not going to love wearing it in Europe. Don’t pack that shirt that looks cute on the hanger in the closet but doesn’t fit right when you put it on. You have to love every  piece of clothing in your backpack, because that’s all you’re going to be wearing for days on end.

I am proud to say I was successful in my packing light endeavors and I managed to sort of keep up with the stylish European fashion that surrounded me all the while staying warm. And I didn’t need super human powers to do so. I’ve decided to compile a list of the clothes I packed in case it is useful to anyone else embarking on a winter European adventure.

Where we traveled:

  • Rouen, France
  • Paris, France
  • Amsterdam, Holland
  • Berlin, Germany
  • Prague, Czech

We traveled during the months of December and January. Though we didn’t experience any snow, it was still quite cold. The number one priority is to stay warm. It’s pretty hard to enjoy every experience to the fullest if you’re shivering the entire time. The weather we experienced was mostly windy and some rain. But for two Canadians, we were prepared for the temperatures!

This was the first time I’ve traveled to Europe during the off-season, but despite the cooler temperatures, it was a wonderful experience. There are less crowds and things are usually cheaper, which everyone is a fan of, right!?

Clothing:

I tired to keep my clothing choices to rather neutral colours. It’s better to have a neutral wardrobe with a few pops of colour if you’re going for a classic look. Plus, I tend to wear a lot of blacks, whites, and browns as it is so it wasn’t hard! As an important note to keep in mind,  leave space in your bag for shopping and souvenirs. You will accumulate a lot of stuff along your travels and you’ll want to have space in your backpack for it! 

2 pairs of jeans – one blue and one black (make sure they are your most comfortable pair of jeans!)

2 pairs of leggings – one black pair and one print pair for those days when I wanted to spice things up

1 skirt – I brought a black high waist skirt to wear with leggings for those days I wanted to be a little fancier

1 dress –  I brought a floral print dress that could be dressed up or dressed down depending on the day!

1 pair of shorts – even though it was winter, I brought along a pair of dark denim high waist shorts just in case. But they can also be paired with tights which is what I did most of the time!

2 pairs of black tights – I wore tights often, plus they look super fashionable!

1 pair of long johns – long underwear, thermal pants, whatever you choose to call them! They came in handy for adding a second layer of clothing underneath to stay warm!

1 fleece zip up – I can’t stress how happy I was with myself for bringing a fleece sweater. I wore it with my jacket every day and it helped keep the heat in. Plus it can be easily taken off when you’re indoors so you can reveal your amazing wardrobe underneath

1 flannel plaid button down shirt – having a button down shirt is a staple because it can be worn on it’s own, or layered with other items of clothing. Also it’s good for adding a bit of colour to your wardrobe

1 jean button down shirt – this was one of my favorite items I packed. It’s perfect for casual days, but can be dressed up if need too (just please promise me you’ll wear it with leggings, don’t do the Canadian tuxedo thing where you wear jean on jean!!)

2 tshirts – I brought one black v-neck and a white scoop neck. These shirts are good for warmer days, but mostly I used them as the base for layering upon

2 tanks – I brought one black tank and a graphic tank (a Harry Potter one just in case you were wondering!) I mostly wore these under my button down shirts

1 nicer shirt – I brought 1 of my nicer shirts for going out. It could be paired with my skirt for extra fancy times.

3 sweaters – keep in mind, it’s winter so sweaters are you’re best friend on this trip! I brought a blue button down sweater (good for taking off if you’re too warm), an “ugly Christmas sweater” for those hipster days and a classic black sweater. I also bought a fourth sweater while I was there. These sweaters were wool and pretty bulky, but they saved me for sure. 

2 long sleeved shirts – the shirts I brought were thin, but could be layered under anything for warmth. I brought a striped shirt, which is a staple to your wardrobe because stripes instantly freshen up any wardrobe, and a grey shirt.

2 bras – 1 black,  and 1 sports bra for travel days where you couldn’t care less about what you were wearing

7 pairs of underwear – one for every day of the week! There are usually laundry facilities at hostels, or a laundromat nearby

7 pairs of socks – I brought four pairs of ankle socks and 3 pairs of wool socks (not only are they warm, but they look cute with boots too!)

1 pair of pj’s – I brought the long pants and long sleeve shirt kind of pj’s. It’s better to bring warm pj’s just in case

Jewelry – I tend to wear a lot of jewelry. For this trip I only brought jewelry that I don’t have to take off so I could sleep with it on and not have to worry about losing it. Also I suggest that you leave your favorite/most valuable pieces at home, you don’t want to lose them

Outerwear

It is important to have warm outerwear that you love, because most of the time this is what you’re going to be seen in. Below is a photo of what I wore pretty much every day when we were outside!

1 Headband – I brought a wool headband to keep my ears warm on those days that I had my hair up in a bun (which was pretty much every day in case you’re wondering)

1 Wool scarf – I wore my wool infinity scarf almost every day. It blocked out wind and kept me extra toasty

1 Warm jacket – in Canada my jacket would have been considered a fall jacket but it was just right for the weather we experienced. No need for your 40 below parkas, however make sure it’s a warm enough jacket that blocks out wind.

1 pair of wool mitts – I wore my mitts almost every day. I was so glad I brought a pair to keep my fingers warm. They could be easily taken off and stored in my bag if needed.

1 leather or jean jacket – though it was winter, there were some milder days and you don’t always want to be walking around in a bulky jacket. I had a leather jacket because it was better for rainy days

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Shoes

Shoes can make or break your trip. Most days are spent walking around and taking all of the sights in and the last thing you want is sore feet! So make sure the shoes you bring are well worn in and comfortable for long days of walking. The shoes I brought had good support in them, but it’s a good idea to think about bringing insoles if you want extra support. Oh and if you’re a shoe person, keep in mind you will be in shoe heaven when you are in Europe and will most likely buy several pairs of shoes!!

1 pair of boots – I brought my favorite pair of boots from Soft Moc. They were so comfortable and warm. Make sure they are also waterproof, because wet feet equal unhappy times

1 pair of black flats – to wear with tights or on a night out

1 pair of sneakers – I am a big converse fan so I brought a pair of my low top chucks. Just make sure that whatever you bring are comfortable!

1 pair of flip flops – you will thank me for this when it comes to showering in the hostels 🙂

Toiletries

When packing your makeup bag, keep in mind that you don’t need to bring the biggest bottles! I went to the dollar store and bought a variety of small plastic bottles to make my own travel sized things. I packed all of these things beforehand, but you can always replace them during your travels if you run out. Here are some essentials:

Shampoo and conditioner

Dry shampoo 

Toothpaste/toothbrush

Chapstick

Face wash/lotion

Body lotion

Body wash  it’s probably a good idea to smell semi good while you are traveling!

Scented perfume bars or perfume lotion – while we are on the subject of smelling good

Deodorant 

Razor

Brush/comb

Straightener (most hostels come with a hair dryer or you can usually rent one. Check the hostel websites if you are pre-booking to see what they offer)

Hair bands and bobby pins 

Makeup and remover

Medication – Tylenol, Advil, Gravol, Pepto are the basics (and any other medications you may need)

Travel towel/face towel (not all hostels have towels, check online beforehand)

Other

Purse or small backpack – for day use. I made sure the bag I brought was big enough to carry a lot of things.

Camera – it’s better to bring a good quality camera than regret those grainy photos after the trip. That being said, iphones are good for those quick snaps, but I strongly suggest a good camera for the majority of the photos you’ll take.

iphone/ipod – music is the number one saviour for those travel days. Also, if you are gone for a long time, you can talk with your phone provider for getting a special plan while overseas. I switched my phone plan so I could text/call home a few times. It’s also a good idea to have access to a phone for emergencies, just in case!

Earphones – don’t forget to bring these babies!

Chargers – for you phone, camera etc

Converter – buy an electrical converter beforehand in order to plug things in!

Water bottle – I bought a plastic bottle that could easily be folded and stored

Money belt – you can choose to bring one or not. I found the money belt useful for keeping emergency money and my passport close by.

Deck of cards – we made many friends along the way with our deck of cards. They’re good for long train rides and airport days

Journal/pen – even though there seems like there’s no time for journaling, it’s always a good idea to keep a record of your travels. It’s a good keepsake to have when you get home.

Official documents/tickets –  passport, ID, airplane tickets, traveler’s insurance etc.

And don’t forget to send postcards home! It’s always fun to write postcards to everyone back home when you stop for a break at a coffee shop.

I hope this list helped you with your packing endeavors. If you have any questions or stories to share feel free to comment 🙂  Happy travels all x.

This was inspired by another packing list I came across on the internet. Check it out to get even more ideas for your travels: http://herpackinglist.com/2013/03/fashionista-packing-list-backpacking-europe/

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I Hope When the Morning Comes You’ll Say: I Did It All

I’ve always had contradicting feelings when it comes to the New Year. Sometimes I feel really cynical about the New Year because I feel the holiday gets too much hype. People say “this will be my year” as if the clock turning to midnight this night will be different than any other night. Why do we need a holiday to make a change in our lives? It all just seems a little too cliche for me at times.

But sometimes I think maybe there is something special about the New Year that makes it easier to make a change. Maybe it is easier to change something in your life if you know the whole world will wake up the next morning and do the same.

Either way, the New Year is a time for reflecting on the past year, and this past year has been a big one for me.

In 2013…

~ I found that my passion lies in history and sociology

~ I said goodbye to my friends and professors after two amazing years at university

~ I worked one last summer in my home town and after five years working at the public library I said goodbye to my colleagues who have become my friends

~ I spent the summer blogging, taking pictures, and drinking tea lattes

~ I went on my annual August long road trip with my best friend

~ I made jam for the first time with my mother

~ I moved to the city into my first apartment, with a stranger for a roommate I might add, and we’ve become great friends

~ I started at a new university where I transferred into a Bachelor of Education degree specializing in early childhood. Even though that meant saying goodbye to a lot of people I loved and to put a hold on my formal studies of history and sociology

~ I survived my first practicum of teaching grade 2’s for five weeks (and by survived I mean had the most amazing experience of my life and became way too emotionally attached to my class of 7 year olds)

~ I had my first Christmas away from my family because I spent the holidays on an unforgettable adventure in Europe with my cousin

When it comes down to it, there is something magical about the New Year. It’s a time for reflection and new beginnings. So here’s to a new beginning for us all, bring it 2014!

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I think this picture sums up my year: sweet tea, taking pictures with my best friend, and my not so photogenic face! x.

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“The First Wisdom of Sociology is This…

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So lately I’ve been thinking about Sociology a lot. For those of you who don’t know, Sociology put simply is the study of society. While I was in university I took quite a few Sociology classes. They don’t have anything specifically to do with my degree, but after I took an Intro Soc class, I was hooked. As my second year of my university career came to an end, I realized I could no longer get away with taking Soc courses without changing my degree. So I was faced with the decision of either remaining on the path I had already set for myself, or changing my degree, and the thing that you have to know about me is that I love Sociology! It has no doubt transformed my life. I can honestly say that I view my life in a very different manner then I did before taking these courses. Sociology has challenged my understandings, my standpoints, and perspectives, which in turn has created a new outlook for me. I have always believed myself to be a rather open minded person, open to new perspectives and experiences and Sociology has helped further develop ideas that I already saw inside myself. So when I realized I could no longer take Soc courses, I got scared. I didn’t want everything I learned to be lost and I seriously considered changing my entire career path to pursue this passion. But then I realized that everything I learned from the courses could not be taken away from me. I don’t need a classroom to learn Sociology, it is in fact all around me and it has sparked something inside of me that will forever remain.

                     …Things are not as They Seem”

                                          ~P. Berger

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Some People Feel the Rain, Others Just Get Wet

Some People Feel the Rain, Others Just Get Wet

It’s been raining a lot lately where I live, which of course I LOVE! I love the sound and smell and feel of rain. Okay really though what’s not to love!? Rain really is the best weather in my opinion!

This picture is the view of the yard from my Parent’s deck. When we were little we would sit under the covered deck whenever there was a big storm and we’d just watch the rain pour down. I think these fond memories are part of the reason I love the rainy weather so much.

It doesn’t always rain where I live, so I’ve found a bit of a substitute for those days when I want a rainy day, but the rain gods just aren’t paying attention to my rain dance! This amazing website: http://www.rainymood.com/ lets you listen to rain sounds whenever you want! Needless to say, I use this website a LOT! I play the rain sounds with music with it too, usually Bon Iver or Ben Howard. So hopefully this post has inspired you to make your not so rainy day, rainy!

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Sing Out the Silence, Fill For Ever and Ever the Emptiness

Sing Out the Silence, Fill For Ever and Ever the Emptiness

I’ve been reminiscing on my trip to the UK lately and I wanted to share this photo. At first it seems like nothing special, but to me this photo is one of my favorite pictures because beyond this arch was a courtyard. I remember the calm quiet of the courtyard was such a contrast from the bustling streets of Edinburgh. And my favorite part of this courtyard was that the tiles on the ground were engraved with quotes. The title of this post is a quote that I saw and fell in love with by James Allan Ford. If you ever end up on the streets of Edinburgh, I strongly suggest that you take time to pop in and out of the quaint little Closes ❤

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Just to be clear, I spend a normal amount of time in coffee shops

Just to be clear, I spend a normal amount of time in coffee shops

It would appear that I seem to spend a lot of time in coffee shops. But just to be clear, I spend a normal amount of time in coffee shops, however I just happen to blog a lot while sipping on teas which I think may give off the impression that I freaking live in these places.

But if there’s one thing I’ve learned through blogging, it is that on the internet you can make yourself appear in any way you wish. I’m not saying that I’m just a facade, but I think it’s important to realize that there’s a person behind every computer screen who leads a completely normal life. This is just an interesting fact for me because I’ve always been the person who follows other people on social media, I’ve never been one to be followed.

So having my own blog has been demystifying for me, but not in a bad way. I like being on this side of the computer, watching my life unfold both on the screen and in life.

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~You Found it in the City~

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Normally I’m not one for spontaneity, but when it’s 10:00 am and my best friend calls me up asking if I want to go to the city for a day of walking in and out of coffee shops and record stores, I am always in! So I spent today with my two best friends surrounded by the city life. As we were city loving, we came across this door which is all kinds of perfect. I mean it’s red with an anchor handle, it doesn’t get much better than that!

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